A year ends and a year begins. And that is how 'Time cooks all beings in its cauldron' (Mahabharata). 2020 is not a year that any one of us is likely to forget in a hurry...or even, forget at all for that matter. For most of us, time and age blur and blend many years into vague memories. We sometimes remember years gone-by only because of special events, milestone celebrations or heartbreaking losses. For the most part, the days just seamlessly flow into weeks, months and years and that is how it was till now.
But the year 2020 made us all pause in our tracks, re-evaluate, re-centre, re-learn and re-focus. In all that was happening, the year also held a mirror and revealed a bit about ourselves. What we saw was not always what we wanted to but we did learn a thing or two about ourselves which otherwise would have gone unobserved and unexamined in the flurry of activities that dominates our lives.
We began 2020 with a lot of plans and as the year unfolded, we realized what Herodotus, the Greek historian once said, "Of all men's miseries the bitterest is this: to know so much and to have control over nothing". This is a lesson we will continue to learn and relearn till we humans humbly accept that not everything is in our control.
As we are set to bid goodbye to 2020, all of us truly carry a mixed bag of emotions. Since I couldn't have described it anywhere near as deeply as Dickens did, here is what the year looked like to me and I'm sure to many of us:
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way..."
Of course amidst all the events that happened the world over and at personal level, the one that affected all of us, one way or another was Covid-19. In a world that is so divided on so many different levels, we learnt to unite as One. Global village was no longer just a good boardroom catchphrase. Covid 19 united all of us in a unique way. We realized, Feelings, indeed have no boundaries. We learnt solidarity and we learnt to be compassionate and empathetic. We all experienced pain, love, loss, loneliness, despair and hope, not just in our own lives but others' lives as well.
Among the collective lessons we learnt, we paused to truly see and appreciate the beauty of Nature. We realized with remorse the abuse we have been subjecting the Earth and all other creatures to. We promised to mend our ways and re learnt to respect Nature. We learnt that in the greater scheme of things, we humans are totally dispensable while Nature is omniscient and omnipotent.
In the midst of despair and hopelessness of Covid times we also saw some inspiring stories. We saw superheroes emerge from amongst us. We saw kindness in the face of strangers and from the most nondescript quarters and learnt to pay forward. We saw selfless service and tried to emulate. We had renewed respect for the doctors, nurses and all healthcare workers. We truly learnt the meaning of the old adage, Health is wealth.
We learnt to stay apart to keep our loved ones safe. We saw the frailty and susceptibility of our parents, grandparents and loved ones and learnt to give their safety precedence. We learnt not to take anybody or anything for granted. We learnt to be thankful and grateful for what we had and rediscovered gratitude in its true sense. We accepted and moulded, changed and adapted and embraced as best as we could, to the New Normal.
We learnt that simple pleasures can give great happiness too. We learnt to value our relationships, our friendships and the unique bonds we shared with those around us. In the face of our own mortality, we embraced reconnections and realized that at the end of the day, the people we care about and love are all that matter. And we learnt to take that extra step to maintain and sustain relationships. Yes, we learnt a lot of lessons. Truly, in a huge way, 2020 was a great leveller and teacher.
The all pervading feeling of 2020 was Uncertainty. But the only thing that remained an unchanging, unfaltering and sustainable constant, was the Spirit of human beings. We stumbled and fell many times. We were broken and brokedown many times. Yet, we dusted off to rise, picking up our battered and bruised Bodies and Souls and learnt to bravely carry on. And that is how we move into 2021, a bit weary from all that we went through in 2020 but with a brave face, a diffident smile, and a hopeful Heart.